19 July 2019

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~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

18 July 2019

New Domain


I am all about simplifying my life right now and making life easier, smoother, happier and healthier both physically and mentally.

Physically things are a bit pants, but that happens ~ it's pretty much swings and roundabouts, ups and downs right now as I try to establish a base for myself and concentrate on then building up my energy and activity.

However, mentally things are improving bit by bit, I'm finding that discovering my inner witch and learning the craft along with Tai Chi, Therapeutic Touch, Photography, Gardening and surrounding myself by nature and animals is helping me so much. I feel that I have finally found my inner peace and what chimes with me.

I know many folk may snigger at the witch aspect but I say to those people ~ don't knock what you don't understand. Everyone has to find their own path and respect that of others ~ that's just my thought on the matter.

Anyhoo ~ new domain!

This is it ...  https://www.purplelily.net ... my new blog domain on Blogger which will replace my old one over on WordPress which is ..  https://purplelily.blog/  .... although that won't happen immediately.

Initially I shall run both blogs alongside each other until my WordPress domain and plan expire.

Why am I switching?

When I started blogging back in the day I was here on Blogger under the name Crazy Purple Mama. After a few years I started lusting after the designs and layouts of folks blogs on WordPress and so switched. However, I hadn't considered the additional cost being so much greater.

This ongoing excessive cost resulted in me downgrading my WordPress plan at the beginning of this year ~ however this also left me with no media storage and I had to delete all my past blogs to enable me to have any storage at all. I miss not being able to upload videos and photos but can't afford to upgrade my plan to regain storage.

SO ~ I revisited my old Blogger account and gave it a little makeover, bought a new domain name (for just £10 a year ~ a fraction of the cost of my WordPress domain) and the plan on blogger is free  as opposed to the annual fee I have to pay WordPress and can no longer afford. This free Blogger account has won me over because it also allows me to upload photos and videos to my blog ~ for no additional cost!

I am happy to give up the fancy templates with additional features and plugins in order to have a simpler, user friendly blog which allows me add media to my posts. It may not be super fancy but it's clean and efficient and does what I need it to do.

I hope that those of you who follow me on WordPress will continue to follow me over here on blogger by subscribing to my blog by email.

Like I said though, in the interim I shall run my blogs on both sites, so that my existing followers can still find me ~ but I shall only be sharing to social media via this blog.

Then in a few months time I shall be deleting my WordPress site for good, by then I hope all those who wish to continue following me will have already switched over to follow me here.

~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

6 July 2019

A Break Away


I do love a break~away both the chocolate biscuit and a mini~trip variety.

Last weekend my husband took me away to Whitby for a 3 night break away because we both love the Yorkshire coast, it holds many happy memories for us.

I can’t believe how fortunate we were with the weather too ~ being on the coast meant we could enjoy the high temperatures with the relief of the sea breeze. So it wasn’t unbearable and perfect for being out and about.

Our hotel was perfect, I grew fond of it and the old traditional vibe it had. It was immaculately clean and very traditionally decorated. The room key was a real key and not a key card, plus we had a real key for the car park barrier too. 

The dining room reminded me of the one in Fawlty Towers ~ the double swing doors into the kitchen from the dining room were the same. I kept expecting Basil to enter via these doors cuffing a cowering Manuel as he scuttled ahead of him. The staff wore uniforms of black dresses with white lace trimmed waist pinafores which was quite a throwback. The tables covered with very highly polished silverware (you could use it as a mirror), silver cutlery, silver salt and pepper pots and silver dish ware and teapots, coffee pots, milk jugs etc. 

Breakfast was novel, no self service! Everything was on the menu and had to be ordered individually ~ then it was brought to you at the table. So orange juice arrived in a decent sized glass on a plate with a paper doily between plate and glass. Toast came in a silver toast rack placed in a bowl (to catch crumbs). Cereals, yoghurts, fruits, toast, croissants etc plus full cooked breakfasts came to order. So my orders were long asking for porridge, fruits, juice, toast etc which felt weird as usually these are items you help yourself to and I felt a bit extra.

We visited Whitby Abbey via car not the 199 steps, thankfully the blue badge afforded me access with minimal walking. The Abbey on the East Cliff was gorgeous and we were lucky it was pretty quiet which meant we could sit and just enjoy the surroundings. The graveyard just by the Abbey afforded views to the harbour and the two small lighthouses, we mooched through the graveyard looking at the ancient graves and enjoying the calm peaceful atmosphere.

Each day I got up slowly either up into flip flops and tee for breakfast with bed head in the restaurant or lie in bed whilst Dave went for breakfast returning with a bacon sarnie from the hotel kitchen for me. Each day was divided into two parts, with a return to the hotel midway for me to have a nanna nap to save energy, pacing myself. The hotel bed and pillows just embraced you and were so comfortable, which helped.

Over the long weekend we also took ourselves off to the beach, the quayside and to Bram Stokers bench. We finished with a boat trip harbour tour and the open top bus tour. 

Having this time away has made me realise it may be time to consider purchasing a small mobility buggy as I couldn’t visit parts of the old town because I can’t walk too far and it was steep and involved much walking. My faithful crutches took good care of me but perhaps I could do far more and open my world up more by investing in a buggy.

Also ~ with a buggy I could “walk” the dogs again everyday, which I would really love to be able to do.

Me being me, managed to sprain my neck on the Sunday afternoon during my nap ~ I think I somehow twisted my neck in my sleep as I woke up with pain along the left ligament of my neck and pain on movement with referred pain along the jaw. Thank goodness for thermacare 16 hour heat pads ~ they are awesome and gave a huge amount of relief.

Going away always comes with payback and post exertional malaise, so I have been lying low and resting to return to my “normal”.

Now almost a week after the injury my neck is starting to heal and some movement is coming back. I had to miss my Tai Chi this week and so I am hoping my neck will be sufficiently healed by Thursday coming so I can go to my next Tai Chi lesson, I hate to miss them. I have the second Tai Chi for Arthritis DVD to learn the additional movements to complete the sequence for my physiotherapy and it really is a wonderful way to both exercise and meditate with calming suitable music. 

If you are interested in seeing the full Tai Chi routine for Arthritis I am learning then you can watch it below in the video from YouTube.


I have started my orientation course on The Magickal Circle School and also learning my therapeutic touch alongside it, so all in all I feel life is now moving forward in a very positive trajectory ~ which is fabulous and long may it continue. In order to do this though I have had to severely limited my time on social media because I find I am too easily drawn in and distracted by it, which leaves me no time for “doing” and “being”. 

If you feel I am being “off” on social media I promise you I’m not, I’m just practising self~care and focusing on living the best life I can by improving my health and overall well~being within the limitations of my energy and concentration levels.

I wish you all a great weekend and hope that you are spending time doing what you love.

~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

25 June 2019

What's A Witch?


What do you think of when you hear that word ~ witch?

Do you automatically go to the witches of our childhood and the fairy stories they exist in?

Do you think of Terry Pratchett’s Discworld novels and think ah ~ Nanny Ogg and Granny Weatherwax, to name but just two.

Does your mind wander back in history to the witches trials ~ or do you think of the modern witch, someone who could be sitting next to you and you would have no idea?

First stop ~ dictionary definition..

Witch
noun
noun: witch; plural noun: witches
1.
a woman thought to have magic powers, especially evil ones, popularly depicted as wearing a black cloak and pointed hat and flying on a broomstick.
synonyms: sorceress, enchantress, occultist, necromancer, Wiccan; More a follower or practitioner of Wicca or of modern witchcraft.
2.
INFORMAL
an ugly or unpleasant woman.
“he can marry the old witch for all I care”
synonyms: hag, crone, harpy, harridan, termagant, she-devil; More
3.
a girl or woman who is bewitchingly attractive.
4.
an edible North Atlantic flatfish.
verb
verb: witch; 3rd person present: witches; past tense: witched; past participle: witched; gerund or present participle: witching
1.
cast an evil spell on.
“Mrs Mucharski had somehow witched the house”
(of a girl or woman) enchant (a man).
“she witched Jake”
Phrases
as cold as a witch’s tit — very cold.
Origin

Old English wicca (masculine), wicce (feminine), wiccian (verb); current senses of the verb are probably a shortening of bewitch.

Hmm, but that’s not my interpretation of a witch. 

Interestingly when you google search what is the purpose of witchcraft this comes up.. “Witchcraft or witchery is the practice of magical skills and abilities exercised by solitary practitioners and groups. Belief in witchcraft is often present within societies and groups whose cultural framework includes a magical world view. It often occupies a religious divinatory or medicinal role.”

Now that’s more like it ~ for me witchcraft is about understanding nature, our environment, the planet, the stars and all living life forms. It’s about harnessing energies and using them for positive purposes ~ to grow and use herbs, weeds, flowers, plants to create medicinal therapies and/or using the in spells to benefit the receiver. I’m a solitary witch, practising quietly by myself and always learning, discovering and practising the craft to become better and wiser in how to utilise my skills. To find harmony and balance with my surroundings and taking the parts of “witchery” that resonate with me, I don’t worship gods or goddesses but honour the maiden, mother and crone because I see aspects of the in nature, the seasons, in life, everywhere in fact. As a modern day witch I don’t consider myself following a religion but a belief, I don’t adhere to the old and definitive practices but more a open ever evolving freedom to choose my path and decide which aspects to incorporate and which to ignore.

Delving back into the history of witches I find that on the whole they were women trying to help others and were totally misunderstood. “Early witches were people who practised witchcraft ~ they used magic spells and called upon spirits for help or to bring about change. Most witches were thought to be pagans doing the Devil’s work. Many, however, were simply natural healers or so-called “wise women” whose choice of profession was misunderstood.“

Ooh I like the description of “wise woman” no one’s ever called me that! Also the healer description resonates with my inner nurse ~ I like that description because the healing touch ~ or energy healing, is something I am currently learning.

If you are interested in healing touch it is described by The Healing Touch Program as ..

“Healing Touch is an energy therapy in which practitioners consciously use their hands in a heart-centered and intentional way to support and facilitate physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health. 

It is a biofield (magnetic field around the body) therapy that is an energy-based approach to health and healing. It uses the gift of touch to influence the human energy system, specifically the energy field that surrounds the body, and the energy centers that control the flow from the energy field to the physical body. 

These non-invasive techniques employ the hands to clear, energize, and balance the human and environmental energy fields, thus affecting physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. It is based on a heart-centered, caring relationship in which the practitioner and client come together energetically to facilitate the client’s health and healing. The goal of Healing Touch is to restore balance and harmonies in the energy system, placing the client in a position to self heal.“

Further explanation from this site goes on to explain how it works..

“Many theoretical frameworks on how energy medicine works exist in the literature of quantum physics and holistic healing. However, while the exact physics mechanisms can not be definitively described at this time, the cumulative results of numerous related studies on energy medicine and consciousness indicate strong support that “something is happening” and that recipients respond positively to energy therapies such as Healing Touch.

Over the years, researchers have developed ways to measure the energy field. Theoretically, by correcting any defects in the energy field, energy therapy practices may facilitate healing of the body, mind and spirit.

Energy therapies focus on removing energy congestion that form in our energy fields (aura) and energy centers (chakras). Once these imbalances and disturbances are cleared, the energy channels resume their task of integrating the body, mind and soul to restore health and promote healing. It may also help to prevent future issues by restoring balance to energy field disturbances, which could later result in illness if left unbalanced.

To gain a deeper understanding of the science supporting energy healing, please refer to the many books, journal articles and research findings written on this subject. Scientific evidence does exist that supports the premise that energy healing is effective. However, an experience is worth a thousand words, so the receiving of a Healing Touch treatment can do more to understand this phenomena than all the writings in the world.“

If you are interested in more information or courses then have a look at this link.. https://ttouch.org.uk/

I am working small spells at the moment, learning very slowly how to harness energies and focus intentions. Not spells that you see in films with bangs, whizzes and puffs of green smoke, more focusing the mind, setting intentions and sending them out. I am also fascinated by Tarot cards and their uses along with runes. I love my spirit animal tarot oracle card pack which I use regularly for guidance. My full Rider Waite deck has just arrived which I need to sage and familiarise myself with before learning how to use them properly.

In addition to the above I am also attending Tai Chi for arthritis classes with a rheumatology physiotherapist which I am loving and we are learning the forms and working towards being able to do the full routine daily as physical therapy and meditation with movement relaxation therapy.

So in answer to the question ~ what’s a witch? 

A witch can be many different things ~ depending on the path they have chosen and the practices they like to follow. 

Some like the occult aspect, some nature, some the religious side and others ~ like me ~ create their own path. Some join covens, working with others, whist some work alone. 

The subject is vast and the paths to take are numerous from the strict historical old practices to the new age modern interpretation. From the occult to the divine, following the moon and astrology to nature and the planets workings. Some do spells, some love crystal usage, meditation and divination and tarot readings and runes. 

There is so much more than this but they are just examples. The beauty of being a witch is that you are the person you choose to be and dabble in the aspects of witchcraft that call to you. Each of us are different and there is no right or wrong ways to practice.

For some it is a religion and Gods and Goddesses are worshipped. I don’t do that personally but I do definitely feel a higher energy exists in some form but I can’t see it as a divine being, more part of the universe itself. 

For me it’s a lifestyle ~ trying not to give out any negative energies when possible ~ that said I’m no saint and have grumpy grouchy days. Mostly I try to work on the basis of give out what I would like to receive back and try to be mindful of my thought processes, mostly to protect myself and stay away from toxicity.

~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

14 June 2019

Spirit Guides//Oracle Cards


I have chosen to share my journey and discoveries along my new path as a witch via this blog. Whether that is a wise decision or not only time will tell. I am well aware that it is something which may bring derision from some corners but I am prepared to take that on the chin should it occur. 

I am not judgemental of others, I feel we all have the right to choose the path that calls us and we should be able to talk about it and share our thoughts with others. I don’t believe in ramming my opinions and thoughts down your throats, you have the choice whether or not to read this blog. I am also not saying that the way of the witch is the right choice for everyone ~ instead it is an option to further explore should it appeal to you. 

In return all I ask is for you to be open to understanding my beliefs if they are other than your own, I am happy to discuss differences with you but personally find that with belief systems and religions there is often more common ground than initially thought. Discussion about our various beliefs can be healthy so long as all parties are respectful of each other, if we can accept our differences then we can live harmoniously alongside each other with love and respect.

So, part of my journey is becoming familiar with tarot cards and understanding how to connect with them to use them to guide me along my path.

My first deck of tarot cards were gifted to me and are the “Messages From Your Animal Spirit Guides” oracle card deck. The pack contains 44 cards and a small information booklet. They are more than perfect for me because I have a huge love for animals and find myself drawn to watching them and when possible helping them.

Prior to delving into the adventurous journey of discovering my inner witch I had no idea about how these things worked ~ allegedly it is best if your first tarot deck is gifted to you. This happens to be something that happened to me purely by fluke. A while ago I bought my middle daughter this tarot deck, she never really got round to using them and so re~gifted them back to me. So technically I didn’t buy them for myself.

Then, allegedly all subsequent decks can be self~purchased but you need to allow them to call to you and not just buy any old deck. I have just purchased a deck, yet to be delivered, of The Original Rider Waite Cards and guide book. I wanted a traditional full deck of tarot cards to work with alongside my oracle deck.

I have been practising and learning how to use my spirit guide deck and found them to be exceptionally accurate in helping me with my questions and very specific with the guidance too. I have been holding the cards and getting to know them, to connect with them and the spirit animals. 

Since focusing on channelling my energies and setting my intentions I have found signs are coming to me from all around me. I am following intuitive feelings, sensing answers from signs shown in nature, my surroundings and phrases or words said at a significant moment.

I feel as if I am connecting to a higher energy and although I don’t specifically worship any Gods or Goddesses I do believe in a higher energy force which has the power to guide us when we ask it to. I have recently experienced a number of “events” where I have been compelled to do something in a way I wouldn’t normally do only to find that my decision to do it in that way has benefited me in some small way. It really feels as if I am being guided and supported by a unseen force and by parts of myself I am newly tapping into.

Today for the first time I read the cards for other people, two of my daughters and my husband to be precise. What struck me so profoundly was how specific the response from the cards was in relation to the question. Each reading was completely different and gave me chills in how the cards worked through me to provide advice and guidance. 

I am learning to work with my intuition and read the signs around me. I am still a novice and have a long way to go but this is a way of life that feels “right” for me and one that is drawing me along with a power and energy all of its own.

~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

10 June 2019

Joy Of Herbs


I love herbs, I love their beauty, their variation, their aroma and their flavour ~ that is all but coriander! Coriander is vile, especially when fresh, it is an abomination of the herb family, however when it is dried and ground then coriander is okay if used in curries and chillies or whatnot, then and only then, in my opinion, is it acceptable. 

A while ago I planted a herb garden and it is now, for the most part, thriving. I have re-potted some of the more vigorous growing herbs that have had a huge growth spurt and yet had to start from scratch with the basil, which it seems is harder to grow and maintain than other herbs. I almost lost my thyme but managed to pull it back thankfully.

The chives are hitting the end of their flowering period and we have thoroughly enjoyed their blooms on salads, sprinkled over veggies and added into mash. I will be looking at growing a variety of edible flowers now because they are so enjoyable to experiment with in the kitchen.

Today I used up the last of the chive flowers in the mash with our dinner and also harvested a variety of the other herbs I’m growing to add to my vegan mince ~ a sort of bolognese, heavy with tomatoes but also carrots, peppers, leeks, celery, mushrooms and onions.

It felt pretty damn amazing to chop and add the herbs to the mince and then a couple of home grown bay leaves too! The aroma filled my nostrils as I chopped and a thrill of excitement ran through me at being able to add fresh herbs instead of the standard dried variety.

I am enjoying so much learning about different plants, how to grow them and learning that it’s trial and error ~ some are rather tricky to grow and will take some practice to master the techniques. 

I feel that finally my black thumb is changing colour, the black is now tinged with a hint of green. Who knows how far this will go ~ I have ambitions, so only time will tell.

On June 19th I am enrolling on a online herbology course and so aim to learn as much as possible at growing my own garden pharmacy, to grow and create my own home made remedies and poultices to treat my ailments with. So, watch this space as I will share snippets of my journey with you.

~ Blessed Be ~
x~X~x

8 June 2019

Changes, Phases, Chapters


Changes, phases, chapters ~ which do you use? 

I don’t know what your personal preference is for describing the different periods of your life, but I find I’m leaning towards “phases” myself.

Looking back I can clearly see all the defining moments of my life which at the time seemed so unclear. The moments that changed me very slightly but significant enough to alter my trajectory. What strikes me with such clarity is that I have had, so far *touches wood*, a very blessed life. This doesn’t mean one without loss, hardship or grief but one where these stumbling blocks were overcome. I have enjoyed so many cherished moments of unconditional love and laughter that the loss when it came was bearable because the memories continue on forever.

I am currently preparing for a new phase in my life, one which is making Dave a little emotional, yet makes me feel empowered. It is being accepting of our age and health issues. We are taking steps to make our lives easier, less cluttered and simpler. We are addressing health needs both for mental and physical balance and stability. This includes building work to make the lower floor of our house a bungalow for myself and Dave, to make our lives more comfortable and significantly easier. The wet room is something I am incredibly excited about, as well as a bedroom overlooking the garden and the decking. Our upstairs is really surplus for the pair of us but does provide for the girls, it is soon to be just their space and also a place for guests to stay.

As you can clearly see my blog layout has changed and the old blog posts disappeared ~ this is because we are downsizing in every way. The cost of my blog was too much for me to justify, I was basically paying for storage of unlimited photos and videos ~ so I downgraded which means very little storage. This necessitated having to delete all old heavily photo filled blog posts and install a new blog layout. So ~ ta da ~ here it is!

We are also looking to reduce our detrimental impact on the planet by reducing plastic use, growing our own herbs, fruit and vegetables where possible and support nature, the environment and planet in any and every way we can. 

I am discovering my inner witch ~ something I wish I had embraced when I was younger. It has been a practice I have been drawn to for many years but not acknowledged or given any time to. Now I am learning, practising and embracing the craft in my own way, using my own interpretation of the Wicca path to personalise it to suit my beliefs ~ I am a solitary witch and have no desire to join a coven. I do however utilise websites and other information sources to learn more ~ especially about herbs, plants and how they can be used in the practice of health and wellness. I am currently waiting for a particular website to be back up and running to join their courses on herbology and possibly some other ones following that. If you are interested in learning and taking some courses yourself on Paganism, Witchcraft, Wicca, Mythology, Divination, Healing, and much more then take a look at The Magickal Circle School. I have saved it to my browser and keep checking on it hoping soon to see it open again so I can enrol and start the courses.

If you are wondering why I have changed my name from Crazy Purple Mama to Purple Lily then I can only say that I felt drawn to giving myself a new name to suit my inner witch ~ Purple Lily came to me so naturally and with such impact that I felt obliged to follow the feeling to change my name across the board on my social media and blog. Purple because the colour brings me power and comfort, it is a calming and strengthening colour. Lily because it is a flower of significance for me, with attachments that give me inspiration, power and strength. So now you know my reasoning ~ just fyi. 

This new phase of our lives is all about removing excess belongings, clutter and baggage ~ physical, mental, personal and emotional. It’s about looking forward to a simpler, cleaner, clearer way of life. It is also a time in our lives, now our daughters are adults, when we can spend time together, travelling and exploring new places and enjoying the activities we haven’t had the time to indulge in whilst we were working parents. It is a time to spend with our parents because we are so aware of the march of time ~ life is about taking control and doing what is important.

I am learning to accept that Dave is now my “carer”, as he is in being in that role ~ now he has to take on responsibilities that used to be mine, it eats into his time and we are still adapting to the changes caused by this shift in the balance of our relationship. We are getting there but on both sides there are times when we feel a sense of loss ~ which I think is entirely natural and a process of acceptance.

To cement the beginning of these changes we have booked a 10 night all inclusive holiday to Greece in September at a quiet resort. The girls will be house and dog sitting in our absence which gives us peace of mind. THEN building work on our ground floor wet room and bedroom starts beginning of October ~ which is beyond exciting for me.

So, Dave and myself are moving upward and onward towards this new empowering phase of our lives. Appreciating the now, the moment, cherishing loved ones and making memories to hold onto in the future. We may be just in our fifties, which isn’t old but affords us the time, space and planning to ensure that our life is just as we want it when we do reach our pensioner years.



~ Blessed Be ~

x~X~x

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